You could set goals for the year, get a new calendar, drink the Kool-Aid of GTD, order a perfect new Moleskine, organize your desk, hire a VA, quit your job and get a new one, or any of a gazillion other great solutions that would create more work+life balance and productivity.

But after a time, that old curmudgeony feeling is likely to creep back in. You know...that sense of not being quite right with the world. Burdened. Stressed. Your Moleskine will sit in the back seat where you tossed it, your VA won't be able to reach you, and the same projects and tasks show up on your brand new calendar every week. Why? Because you can't solve the puzzle of balance by layering gadgets, tools and toys over what's really broken. Your integrity.

So these three anti-productivity productivity practices will bring your life into sharp, direct, clear focus and give you immediate spaciousness, completion and integrity.

Tell the truth:

I really wanted to attend your party but I was working late and the kids had a meltdown when I came home and by the time things were calmed down it was too late. Besides, someone boxed me in and I couldn't get out of my parking space even if I wanted to. I'm sorry if you were counting on me. How can I make it up to you?

Say no:

I really don't have the time to add one more thing to my plate, but I guess I have to do this. I mean it won't look good if I don't. I'm really working at creating balance in my life right now. No thank you.

Stop Talking:

I'm really working at creating balance in my life right now. No thank you. I mean, I'd really love to take on this project, and I know you're going to be disappointed in me, but I just feel really overwhelmed, and if I bring home one more project I think my husband will divorce me. You're not mad are you? Oh heck, just give it to me, I can do it. I don't know why I said no.

Imagine what it would be like to do these three things every day, all day long. Imagine the impact to your experience of integrity and balance.

In joy,

Lisa

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